What I Learned from 500 Marriages

I officiate at many weddings. One of the joys is getting to know the couple and the way their relationship began.

I've heard some amazing stories. Over the years, a few common themes have emerged.

For example, people tend to meet their partner when they least expect it. They reluctantly attend a party or sign up for a dating app. Then, after some grumbling, they talk to or message someone, and the rest is history.

This truth is not limited to couples. It extends to careers, personal goals, sports and so much more. Why is that? Why do we often find what we seek when we are not looking for it?